Musings

The Pride, Pain, and Privilege of Motherhood

I’ve been a mother for one whole year. A full twelve months. For you, dear reader, that may sound most unremarkable. After all, most people become parents. But for me, a new mum, it’s the highest, and proudest, achievement I could muster. I came into motherhood expecting the difficulty and pain it will bring. I… Continue reading The Pride, Pain, and Privilege of Motherhood

Musings

In Hindsight: Hati-Hati di Jalan

“Will there ever be anyone quite like you?” To this question, every fibre of my being feels like screaming, “Yes, yes there will! And someone much better, more suitable for you too!” Not in the cynical, no-one-is-irreplaceable kind of way, but in the “God-has-a-more-beautiful-plan for you” way.

Musings

Partner in Mind

“Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.” (William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Night's Dream) One of the qualities I seek most in terms of self-improvement is intelligence. It is thus natural that I deem intelligence as, among a few others, a top priority in the quest… Continue reading Partner in Mind